朋友Friends

初次相见 遮遮掩掩
几次相见 谈天说地
长久相见 真心相坦
不再相见 话又有几？

一月孤独 二月有朋
朋不需多 在乎真诚
上直下八 直率多谈
有知共享 无所不谈

俩人相聚 从零开始
慢慢增数 一变二再加一
加至何时 你我与天定
得多或少 定于付收有几
直至破百 朋友二字相成
朋友有难 吾愿为君
上了刀山 陪下油窝
两肋插刀 在所不辞

识英雄 重英雄
有朋友 重朋友
愿你我朋友相识至老

To my friends, KS and LJ.

“朋友是感情的象征” （交朋友应该由感觉开始吧！而感觉也是一种感情，I think yes。）

选择朋友第一件要紧的事，必须选择志向远大的人（不一定吧！），第二点就是选择气味相投的人。所说的气味相投的人，也就是指志同道合的人，(也对，正所谓不臭不相聚），所说的志向远大的人，也就是在事业上可以做终身益友的人。

君子先选择然后才交友，所以少忧。小人先交然后再选择，所以多怨。（说得好，道出交朋友的重要）《说文》中说：“朋友，就是感情的象征。志同道合就可以结为朋友。”《易经》上说：“同声相应，同气相求。”所以说，志同道合，气相同的人，就会结交成真心的朋友。

一般来说，有益处的交友有三种情况。同正直的人交友，同诚信的人交友，同见识广博的人交友，这是有益的三友。《礼记》上说：“与君子交朋友，就像进入了芝兰花圃，时间长久了，就闻不到它的芳香，也就是与它同化了”。所以交正人君子为朋友，就可以说是一生的幸福！

好喜欢这一遍文章里的几数点子。

名字有多好？

http://www.name321.com/zzcm.htm

姓名：邓添友
五行分别是：火水土
笔画分别是：19 12 4
天格.人格.地格.总格.外格数分别：20(水) 31(木） 16(土） 35(土） 5(土）
总评数理得分：100 分

姓名：邓添雄
五行分别是：火水水
笔画分别是：19 12 12
天格.人格.地格.总格.外格数分别：20(水) 31(木） 24(火） 43(火） 13(火）
总评数理得分：84 分

姓名：邓添康
五行分别是：火水木
笔画分别是：19 12 11
天格.人格.地格.总格.外格数分别：20(水) 31(木） 23(火） 42(木） 12(木）
总评数理得分：82 分

我的名字最不好，不过我的有点准。你呢？试试吧！兄弟！

Melaka 3 days 2 nights trip- 5

What should bring along for vacation?
If you are going to a place that is less night activity, laptop is important to you if you are a late sleeper. Save some dramas, movies or games for you to play or watch at night.

If you are not accustomed to eat outside food, a rice cooker may help you. You just need to bring some rice or food to cook. Or sandwich maker can help you too. You can bring ham and bread.

Remember to bring your toothpaste, body and hair shampoos if you don’t want to buy at there or to save money. Some hotels provide cheap shampoo or don’t provide any at all.

I always bring my towel there because I don’t like to use those towels provided by hotel with no reason.

If you bring fewer clothes, you can bring laundry detergent to wash your clothes but remember to bring hangers to hang your clothes.

Charger, if you stay more than one day at there.

Money and credit card are equally important. If you go for large shopping complex and restaurant, you can use credit card. If you go for street stalls, money is more important than credit card.

Remember to bring drinking water, if not, you need to be thirst till dead at there. Hahaha, of cause you can buy at there. Some hotels will provide you kettles.

Or bring rackets and balls, swimming clothes, any sport activity tools to make yourself to have more fun, if you are a hyperactive kid. =p

Of cause this information is referring to small hotel.

Melaka 3 days 2 nights trip- 4

my last day look.

Melaka 3 days 2 nights trip- 3

This is how the hotel room looks like. I love it.

This is a balcony. The view is the road. Too bad.













This is my brother and his wife room, consist of a large bed and large space of toilet connecting with a changing room.













This is a dinner table.













This is a living room connecting with small kitchen, has tv but no astro. Hahaha,=p.













This is the room I slept. Two beds inside.

Melaka 3 days 2 nights trip- 2

This is how the hotel looks like.

This is the swimming pool scene. 8am to 8pm. The first day, quite ok, still had a lot of people played including my brother and I. The second day, guark guark, the pool water overflowed to surrounding drain. The drainage system was suck.













Don’t doubt, yes, there is a reception counter which actually is a jockey counter. The actual reception counter was full of spiderweb and dust.













I think this actually is a lounge bar but now was abandoned.













This is a reading corner but only few old magazines are there.













This is how the floor looks like with a lot of green mosses growing and yellow stains.














This is telephone corner but without telephone there. Hahaha, funny thing.













Another funny thing, this is a fountain without water. =p













There is also tennis and badminton counts but they are abandoned. I wanna play badminton or tennis as well but unfortunately I didn’t bring any racket. >.<













I don’t know this actually is tree or what kind of plant. The bottom part has many large pieces of leave but it is so high to reach to second floor.

Melaka 3 days 2 nights trip

I’m back.

Hmm, I was quite exciting about this trip before I went there. In my imagination, there will be a large swimming pool with clean water and surrounding with green trees and colourful flowers. Very relaxing feel.

It took more than one hour to go there. Felt bored while sitting in the car.

Yeah, my imagination came true when I stepped in the hotel. The swimming pool really large but the water didn’t look clear but fortunately there was not much chlorine smell.

Yup, wanna told you a first sight I saw this hotel. It somehow looks like a ghost house. This hotel actually was combination of paradise and leisure holidays but paradise was closed, so now only left leisure holidays 25 units are available. This hotel had at least 4 blocks of building surrounding the pool, but now only 2 blocks are available, other blocks of building are full of grass and those windows are broken. Birds are flying freely on top of the buildings, if a ‘woo woo’ sound is noised, definitely it is same as ghost house that we had watched in tv.

My first day look.

Chinese Poetry

天微暗 心微痛
晴不在 痕不见
雨欲下 心淌血
盐化水 目聚泪
水味咸 泪亦咸
努力无果 情已逝
哭亦难换 随它去
悄悄地
天转晴 心已不痛
春风起 心也放晴
烈日下 盐再聚
无数天 人也长大 不少

Crazy-够牛吧

KS Fai Chai

I wish all my friends Happy Chinese New Year, Gong Xi Fai Chai, especially my KS and LJ friends.

和朋友的约定

第一 请一定要记住KS
First, remember KS

第二 相信KS，KS们永远都会是你的伙伴
Second, believe KS will be your friends forever

第三 如果有机会就找KS一起出街
Third, let go out have fun together

第四 如果没空，也不要忘了用手机或电脑与KS联络
Fourth, if no time to meet, SMS and MSN are other ways

第五 不要偷懒，每个星期至少上网一次，为KS留言
Fifth, remember leave message for other KS online

第六 如果你没做到，KS就会分开，K是K，S是S，没了KS
Sixth, don’t separate KS two alphabets

第七 我们能去不同的地方，只要有可能约在一起，就尽量约，只要能够赴约，就尽量赴约
Seventh, there is a possible for KS to meet every where, every time

第八 当KS老了，KS也一样可以相聚在一起
Eighth, KS still will be KS when we grow

第九 我们的人生只有一次，所以要珍惜KS在一起的时间
Ninth, appreciate the time for KS stick together

第十 不要忘记一起KS过的生活过，当有一天不能再走动的时候，想想KS也会笑
Tenth, recall the KS time when we are going to be old to have a smile on our face

哈哈，可以吗？希望吧！有点恶心，可是如果可以是很有意思的。LJ Family 也一样希望。
Same to LJ Family

Modified from a Japanese movie, 10 agreements with dog.

与狗狗的十个约定-2

第一 请一定要仔细聆听我的话
第二 相信我，我永远都会是你的伙伴
第三 多和我一起游戏
第四 也不要忘了我内心的想法
第五 不要打我
第六 如果我不听你的话，一定是有原因的
第七 你能去学校，还有朋友，可是我只有你
第八 当我老了，请好好地对待我
第九 我的寿命只有十年左右，所以要珍惜我们在一起的时间
第十 我不会忘记跟你生活过的时间，当我死去的时候，拜托你，守候在我身边

这是一部日本电影。凡是有关于宠物的剧情，我都会想要看。
它不是最感动我的一部电影，可是却是我很喜欢的一部。不知道为什么？

故事里有演技清湛的狗狗。小狗充分表现出它的可爱，大狗也有把它的忠诚传达出。

故事有着悲惨和幸福。妈妈的离去，狗狗的到来，陪伴明莉长大。狗狗变老，变没力气了，它要离去了，明莉呢？它一定要等待明莉回来。在妈妈与狗狗相继离去的期间，明莉寻找到自己的真爱，真的是一部充满Irony的电影。一个离去换来一个的到来，也许心情会有所寄托，不会太伤心，可是如果是我，我就不可能会这么放得下，也许需要几天的时间去消化。

明莉的妈妈说他是一阵风，如果当明莉感到有风吹来的时候，那就是妈妈在身边。如果是我，我会是什么？

狗狗离开后，妈妈又像风一样回到明莉的身边。明莉寻找到妈妈留下的一封信。故事有点老套，可是我觉得很温暖。我接受这样感人的老套戏码。

看完了会感到温暖，会替明莉开心当她感到幸福的时候，会觉得妈妈的聪明与伟大，更会想要疼爱我家的狗。心情真地会随着故事情节起伏着。

从电影里的家具摆设和衣着，全是淡色系列的颜色，很有家的感觉。故事里的妈妈是一位很会画画的人，而她的画有着天真、单纯的感觉，帮明莉画了与狗的十个约定图，更把故事添加几分美感。

与狗狗的十个约定-1

第一和第二

有谁是永远的第一？有谁是永远的第二？
如果真的是拿了第二，那就接受现实。第二名也只是仅次于第一名而已。第二名就要说了一堆莫名无聊的话，那第三名要说什么？第四名，第五名呢？

第一名可以选择沉默，接受别人的喝彩；第二名也可以选择沉默，接受他人的喝彩，所有人都拥有权力做出同样的选择或决定。

如果第一名之所以可以得第一是因为一些旁门，那第二名也可以吧！而且他们又不是做违法的事。他们也是辛苦努力付出的，而因为个人觉得这是丢脸，这是旁门就说别人，那也许是你个人的问题，不能怪别人，不能说他人，只好怨自己，怪自己个人的价值观念与他人不一样。

在一个竞争的社会里，所有人都要努力为自己赚取更好的成果，只要不违法，只要不对不起别人，对得起自己及良心，那就是正确的态度。
不会有人错怪他们，我们只会觉得他们有头脑，有努力。
试想想，如果一个人不努力，那他们还会有快乐的明天吗？
相反的，只要肯努力，每个人也会有一天成功爬上第一的位置。

我们只会欣赏努力的人，可怜不努力的人。
我们只会欣赏懂得感激的人，讨厌不懂得感激的人。

学会感激，才会成长，才会懂事，才会让人喜欢，以及得到更多的支持。
我也正学习。很难，可是一定要学。

Ideal College

Suddenly think that why I should need to study hard for just a paper (certificate), can’t I survive without that paper?
That paper costs me about 10 thousand money and even it takes over my joy and time and gives me a lot of pressure. I’m not saying we should not study but should we study in a good way with least pressure.
Being a full time student is really stressful. If possible, I will probably choose to be a part time student. Working while learning at the same time. Experiencing a job is more important in memorizing the whole notes given by lecturers while at the same time you can earn money to support the school fee.

What if I as a headmaster?
I would like to let students have more time to have more spaces in college with nice sport courts and swimming pool. Of cause with least rules in order to comfort students while have a great relaxing time.

I will arrange the time schedule like not more than 5 hours study time but more time spend in practical. There is definitely not an interesting thing to face a stack of notes than handle the real instrument, to experience the real rather than imagine by reading lines and pictures is more beneficial.

Definitely the time arrange for the class should be smart, no too early class, no too late class, no more than 3 hours space time in between classes.

Of cause, library plays an important to students, library should be comfort and near to students study hall. If can, build more library or study rooms.

If a college is too large, maybe a little small transportation is required for transport students from one point to another far point.

Nice park with a lot of beautiful and colourful flowers can make students feel less stress.
Canteen food should be nice and good in taste with variable choices.

If possible, a shopping complex could be nearby the college. What is ideally to have in a complex? Coffee shop, food restaurant, book shops, clothes shop. Maybe some will think that this will increase the chance for students to skip the class but actually if a student really wanna skip the class, no one can obstruct them.
A nearby complex is good because the student can return back to college as soon as possible and in time to attend their class.

Computer is another important tool plays an important role in college. The connection line should be faster. If possible, build more computer rooms around the college.

Of cause there is impossible to have such of this college in Malaysia, but because of having a hope, people can always to have a progression.

Just hope for pass

17th January was a nightmare began for me. After first paper, I was just blurring and no any expression was showed on my face. OMG, maybe this was what my mind thinking at that moment. Really OMG.
Looked to others, they were some smiling, some so sad, some just kept themselves silent.

When friends gathered together, first word came out was a sign.
Haiz, seem like there were many people same as me, felt so difficult for the morning paper. I was just so worried and almost wanted to give up for my afternoon paper, but my consciousness told me I shouldn’t. Of course, if really fei lao, one paper is enough, I don’t want more than that.

After I backed to home, I was so tired and went for a sleep, just wanted to forget everything that had happened just now.

The below stuff was figured out due to my mind still kept on thinking. I really wanted to let my mind clear out those things to have a good rest but the mind was out of control.

Coursework 30%
Exam 70%

Expected
Coursework 20%
Exam 30%

I just wish to pass, so 50% is num num ho for me.

A ÷ 100 = 30 ÷ 70
A = 42

Friends, we just need to get 42 to aim for pass. It was so funny. Students should hope to get good result, to aim A, but how come student as me just aim for pass.
Last semester should be everything in good, please let the good happens to us.

Gambateh, we still have 4 more subjects to go for.
So, every of my friend aza aza fighting.

Cold Joke

When E.T. is gone, A~Z still got how many alphabets.
24, wrong wrong.
21, hmm, E.T. took U.F.O.
20, yeah, yeah, E.T.T.K. took U.F.O. went away. (I think by myself)

I’m getting crazy, like to listen this type of cold joke now.

Why Sus Scrofa likes to ask WHY?
Ask me WHY?
Yeah, you get the answer.
You are Sus Scrofa who likes to ask WHY?

Why we need to take the exam?
To show your intelligent.
……
Do you care for environmental issue?
Do you love recycle?
While you are taking exam, you are wasting a lot of papers.
So, says STOP to exam.

For me, I will say GTH to the exam.

Take care

We are going to graduate soon. How?
Still have five more days to meet in school, but those days are tension, nervous, not fun at all. Everyone now is preparing for exam. I should gambateh as well.

Feeling is so special, mixed with happy and sad moods.
Feeling happy because finally I’m going to graduate. This is what I’m longing for.
No need to face those dislike lecturers, no need take LRT go to college anymore, waste an hour time, thoroughly say goodbye to college, to those unhappy, bad memories.

Feeling uncertainty, because I don’t know how’s my life going to be. If someone knows any good fortune teller, please recommend to me. I wonder how my future is.

Feeling sad, of cause going to separate with my friends, and especially to those are going to UK and live far from KL. Of cause those good, excited memories could only be recalled, I hope my friends and I can maintain and create more our good memories. I really hope.

Haiz, a long sign.

Think back the time that I was a young child, suddenly think that time went so fast, from a kid until now, knowing that the life is more complicate than I think, as we grow older and older, knowing more and more about the dark side of this world.

Being naïve is good for kid, being naïve definitely is fool for us. We need to be smart to face everything.

Friends and I still are a learner. Be smart and creative to make our future shine. Hoping everyone good in future, of cause healthy always. Take care, friends.

Anyhow, just concentrate for the exam first.

学学讲话

看了很多颁奖典礼，当然颁奖的DJ大多数都是很会说话的，有些当然是比较孙色的。
我不太会说话，所以我不多说话。
说话也是一种技巧，我知道。
要有节奏，要有速度，要有内容，要人明白，要有想法，要很合理。
许多许多的歌手想要说出一些感性的话，好让明天的娱乐头条就是自己，可是说不出太多感性的话，说的就只有沉闷的话。想要呈现感动的画面，却变成收视率最低的一幕，打哈欠的时间。

我喜欢听Sammi讲话。
头脑想的可以很清楚地用口传达。说话简单，有画面，有吸引力，大方得体。

喜欢谢安琪的表现。
像个小女人，拥有自己的想法，清楚理出自己头脑的想法，再用自己的口语方式表达出来。

喜欢杨千桦的个性。
有时会意想不到她所说的话，可是却是有关联，有深度，有自己的魅力存在的话，再不然就哈哈大笑又或者大哭一场，也让人清楚知道她的感动。

喜欢天真的想法，喜欢有自己魅力的人。
每一个人都说了好多好多的话，如果不知道要说些什么，就闭起嘴巴，用动作，用手势告诉大家你的想法，你也会引人注目。

Don’t know what to say, then keep your mouth close, use your gestures to show your mind thinking, you will also be eye-catching.

谁最不会讲话？请看看2008年的音乐颁奖典礼。你觉得哪一个是最不会讲话的，那他/她就是了。

一连串的心情

5th January

Compare
我讨厌比较，无论是拿我和别人，又或者是拿我的朋友和别人，我都觉得那是一种对我们的侮辱。
为什么要比较？如果是和好朋友一起玩笑的比较，我接受，因为那是良性的竞争，但是为了比较而努力，为了赢得我就要耍手段和心计，为了比较而牺牲了快乐的过程和原本的自己，为了比较不择手段的，一心一意的就是要赢。
我觉得这一种人比流浪的小猫小狗还要可怜。小猫小狗只要找到爱它们的主人，就会很幸福了，但是爱比较的人永远都活在别人的影子下，没了自己，没了快乐，永永远远都要呈现完美的状态。你拥有上帝的完美吗？

I’m not so perfect. Most of us are not prefect. We are having shortcoming but we are having our advantages as well.
Sometimes I hope I am others, rich, tall, perfect, crazy…but as compare, I even hate to live in the shadow of others’ life. We should have our happiness from being ourselves, I think.

Hate
我讨厌金牛座的人，讨厌属牛的人，讨厌处女座，讨厌爱炫耀的人，讨厌做作的人，讨厌装作关心别人的人。Hey，讨厌的人还蛮多的，可是我都遇上了我所有我讨厌的人。

倒霉啊倒霉，我真倒霉啊！

Taurus, Virgo, zodiac year of cow
I have met all my hates.

Upper class
听到别人说他们是上等人，我就好想问自己那我就是下等人吗？人就是人嘛！还要计较上等下等也太过分了。人称呼自己为上等人就会比较品德高尚吗？称呼别人为下等人，自己就会比较上等吗？

Astrology

A new astrologist had discovered a new horoscope. Look at the sky, find the nine stars, use lines to connect them together, what will you get?

KS two words. Yeah, hooray. Actually, the new astrologist is me and a new horoscope is called KS, symbolizes our friendship.

Next time when you feel bored, look at the sky, find the nine stars, use lines to connect them together, and think about KS, think about us.

和朋友的约定













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KS Fai Chai











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